Monthly Archives: July 2015

It’s okay to feel inferior

 

Brick Wall
Find value in being the wall, when alone, you are only a brick

Not all posts on this site will have to do with math, teaching, or technology.  For example, today, during my time alone with God, I was impressed to record the following in my journal.  It may not be exceedingly profound, but I don’t want to soon forget it because I am often, easily wounded when my ego takes a hit.

Do not let your feelings push you to overreact when you encounter someone that excels at something you do not. For one, you must remember that your value, whether to yourself, to the world as a whole, or to your creator, does not depend on how well you fair against other individuals. You are vastly more complicated and intricate than just one trait or skill. Even though it is easy to fall into the trap of assigning general superiority to someone who has bested you or overshadowed you, remember that there is a uniqueness to your make-up and that uniqueness allows you to meet the needs of others in vital way. I think it is also worth remembering that the value of single brick in a wall is not in its uniqueness. It may even be the case that removing one brick will not bring down the wall. Even so, you are part of something larger. You together with many other bricks hold up your portion of the building. The wall needs bricks. It may not need each and every single brick, but that’s not important to the bricks or the wall. The wall needs to be a wall, it needs the parts in order to be the whole. Find value in being the wall, when alone, you are only a brick.